You can never make people feel the way you want them to. Love your life and your friends and whoever stays for the ride is yours!
You don’t need to know who you’ll be when you grow up. Take your time. The most interesting people I know do things on their own schedule.
First, put yourself in a place where you’ll be happy - a place where you’ll wake up every day and say “Yep, another day in paradise.” Then, PLAY FOR KEEPS. Take your time meeting people and you will have love around you for the rest of your life. Laugh and be light!